This means marriage in Chinese.
And it's pronounced as ''hun'' in Mandarin.

Its pronunciation is similar to ''fun'' in English.

But... is marriage fun?



Is it really very difficult to maintain a marriage?
I've heard of so many divorces recently.
Husbands having affairs, couple losing the love factor,...
They say men who are between the age of 35-45 are most prone to having affairs.
Because they are the most passionate.
Furthermore they have careers and they have the money which made them very attractive to younger single women.

However, I do see old loving couples taking strolls in parks, holding hands.
So... is it because the guy never cheats on his wife,
Or... the guy did but his wife chose to give the guy another chance.?

If it's me, I would never tolerate my husband cheating on me.
There's only one reaction if my husband has another affair - DIE! hahaa.. no laa.. I will just divorce him and get the alimony.
Jason, you get the idea? hahah!
My mom mentioned that men must have an affair before they will be more appreciative and start to take care and love their wives more.
So sad...
Maybe women should have affairs too.. Haha!
Oops! Jason, I am just joking!

Anyway I saw this on TV:
To keep a guy, you have to understand him, not love him.
To keep a girl, you have to love her, but don't expect to understand her totally.

I agree that girls are difficult to understand.
Actually, we don't need our boyfriends to understand us, we just need them to support us, to side us, to pacify us and to show us love and concern.

Sigh... I have 3 tests and 1 presentation this week.